Hi Marisol, well as i type this my H had just stopped by my desk. He keeps trying to be my friend...I don't need a friend, I need a husband. I know he is trying to be nice because he is moving tomorrow. Wish we did not work together - wish that OW did not work here. I am thinking of going black n/c but it is tough when we work and go to the same meetings. I want H to realize what it will truly be like without me. But then my other worry is that it will make him closer to OW. Exposure is a good thing though. It has had some effect. Not enough to break them up but to know their dirty secrets are out in the open. Goals - GAL - 1. commit to the gym 4/5 times a week. continue walking at beach 2. Make some friends and make some plans (going out on Friday to see Irish band) 3. Make office a game room for D15 and friends 4. try to get more sleep
what I need is some goals in relation to DBing with H. I need to see how to handle this with OW in place
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
