Hi TXmom, sorry you are having a bad day also. I am the same, I do good for a few days and then BOOM - I go crazy and then it just reinforces with H why he wants out. But we are human and it is difficult especially when it comes to the kids. It breaks my heart that because of their actions our kids suffer. I also thank you to remind me about how if they were unhappy they did nothing but cheat. Right now it is a love/hate relationship with them. We want them back and when it happens (not if), then we can deal with the infidelity. So go wash your face, wipe away the tears, tomorrow will be better. Too bad you weren't closer to the Gulf area then we could get together and commiserate! We moved here 2 years ago and I have no family here at all which really upsets me more because this is something he wanted to do and I supported it. Take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
