What is it you need to do Marcum? Find a way to connect or file? I think your wife is still confused or she would have already filed. Right? Your money is already split right? What connects you two? Health insurance? Car payments? I think it was great that she saw you out GAL. To say "life is what it is" is simply saying "I screwed up the best thing in my life, but have too much pride to come out and say it or work to make it better."
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."