I have had absolutley no romance since the bomb dropped...not even a kiss. Lots of great long tight hugs...but that's it. There has not been any negitive talk...so I guess that's a good thing. We don't talk about the seperation...or any moves towards divorce, splitting assets etc...so I guess it's just the status quo. We only get together about once a week.
I feel kinda weird trying to do anything romantic and it might come off as pursuit and make her pull away (which I don't want). I am going to try to create situations where I can be playfull and maybe we can act more like kids and have active fun. If I can invite her to active stuff like hiking, art shows (not really active), maybe a boat ride to one of the cafe's across the harbour...it may start to change the dymanics of our interactions.
What kind of stuff are you and H doing for fun???
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
