hi T2L, thanks for the encouragement. I have been GALing. I met these 2 women at the beach a few days ago, (I swear that God put them in my path when I needed a friend), both are very funny, religious, and most of all enjoy life -- they are taking me to see an Irish band on Friday and they said the place is not a pick up joint so I could relax. I'm going especially since H is "going away" overnight. I also joined the gym here last week and have been going during lunch since. I took my first Yoga class yesterday and almost died and went back today in the weight room. The good news is that I am down 22 pounds and just 1.5 pounds off from the goal I set for myself this month. H with all the drinking, going out, no exercise and fast food looks pasty and swollen. If OW is keeping up with H drinking she must look like hell too (I can only hope) So physically I am doing fine but emotionally it is tough. H is taking off tomorrow to move his clothes out. He has packed nothing. Knowing him he will just throw everything in the car and go. I wish I could do something uncharacteristic tonight but I am at a loss. Any ideas group?? I am meeting with counselor tonight at 5 and H is taking D to practice. D has been nice to H but really emotionally void with him. You reap what you sow. Thanks gang for letting me unload here. It is like free therapy! Now T2L, I am dying to know what your game plan is?? Last push?? I am interested..2 week plan -- very very curious. Good luck with it. Please keep our family in your prayers as I will keep yours.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
