I'm back after a long absence

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being me,

thanks for the advice, you are right in so many ways. I am doing better, I cried a lot, but am over that now, I am slowly getting comfortable in the new arrangement, even sticking up for myself on occasion. I am trying hard not to live on hope, but instead focusing on myself and my goals, getting better at that as well.

I do agree that he is the one with the problem and he needs to work out his issues if this is ever going to work out, I can't do that for him. so.....
maybe he will wake up, maybe not, either way, I am going to move ahead with my life and my goals.

J