OK Hope3343, one more day. You have made it this far and have done so wonderfully. I can say we are all very proud of the work you have done. Please don't hesitate to contact. My H has been gone out of the home since May. It'll will be difficult but you find more peace strangely enough. My kids even noticed the peace his 1st night gone. It's like we could breathe and no one had to walk on egg shells.

Are you still GAL"ing? I think it would be a great idea today and tomorrow for you to be bus doing something so uncharacteristic of someone in your shoes and he should find out about it. He is going to expect you to be crying sad and depressed. Don't give him that today and tomorrow. Come here and unload. You may have to act this one out, but he needs to see that your gonna make it and keep living your life.

I have something I am doing for the next 2 weeks that I'm gonna share with you guys when I get on later tonight(pacific time) sorry it'll probably be later for you Eastern timers. I feel like for me this is going to be a strategic last push for me. It's very detailed and I got it from one of the books I also red that I mentioned to you guys. Its Surviving an Affair by Dr. Willard Harley. It's a little more of an actual plan and less of a living just getting by thing, so I think I'm going to go forward with it. Anyone interested?


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca