Hi Clayton,

decided based on your thread to come to this area from Newbies as well. Your sitch sounds a lot like mine! See my thread.

I too am in the friendship stage (mostly) and there has been a bit of crossover to romance (initiated by H). He seems to have backed off a bit since then- back to friendship a while longer. I guess that is a good thing \:\(

I too am wondering when! we will ever slip into a meaningful R talk. I know that it has to be comfortable on his part. I am waiting for him to basically be the one to initiate it. Not sure if this is the right thing to do.

Been trying to be his biggest supporter- which is hard to do!

Maybe we can help each other find ways to take things a step forward with our S?


Me-36
H-30
T-7yr, M-3yr
DivorceBusting Saved my marriage!
sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!