Coming here from Newbies. Kind of stopped over and saw that many of your sitch are much more similar to mine. My H moved out within days of dropping his bomb. Now I realize that he was working up to that decision in silence for a while (getting his ducks in a row).
But- compared to other sitch where S has stayed at home, I guess it has been a good thing that he left. Reduced tension- I am doing fine at this point with being alone (not feeling so desparate/lonely). I 'think' he misses being here because he does seem to come over/visit a lot.
We are in friendship stage/kinda mixed up with romance (see my second thread).
Anyway- I appreciate any help- look forward to meeting you all.
Don't have human kids (was ready for them with my H), but we do have dog kids together.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
