You sounds a lot more positive, which I truly think is the key to success in this process!
If you already asked him for the list and he was OK with it, then that's great! You know your H best :).
It is true as you said that what works for one couple may not work for another!
Just a couple more days to go...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
