Hi TxMom, glad you liked the picture idea. Thought it would be fitting.
Being in this situation is so hard. We are griefing for them but they are not dead they are out cheating. I feel it is much worse for you since you have such little ones. Glad you are pressing for H to watch the kids on his own.
I know my H is impressing this OW with gifts and spending time. I do think he feels he is invested in this. I did ask my H many times is what you want before I truly found out about the A. But now the A is in the open with us that hurts him and he also has the other worry about being exposed at work which will get him fired and her. Even if one job posts out, no matter they could still get fired in the future. Believe me if my H changes companies I will go to HR and still have her fired. But if my H gets fired then I cannot afford to live here with D.
I look back and think of all the times I just ignored my H and all the opportunities I missed and of course blame myself. But no matter what they should not have cheated.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
