Already this morning W is IM'ing me. She talked to my friend (and hers) Deb about coming over so they could go shopping in Amish country around us. This is good. Deb is one of the friends she didn't want to face because she's ashamed. Deb and her H are going to come over and spend some time with us. That will be GOOD.
Let W see that a couple who has gone through this same thing (Deb had an affair a number of years ago and they put their marriage back together and are happier than ever).
And she won't quit IM'ing me even after I told her I needed to get some work done.
I'll keep you posted.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.