Lan - Yes, totally done. Have been for a few weeks and it wasn't the sitch particularly, the way my W was in particular but a singular event where she stopped 'my time' with my boys after moaning she didn't think I saw them enough. I posted about it and it was in front of them so I had to be big enough to hold my complete anger and sadness at the time, say goodbye to them and go. I'd thought she'd started using the boys as a weapon and that was so low, I have never been so angry in my life, yet controlled it.
Then, after that, so much time to think and look after our relationship that I came to realise we'd been existing rather than living for a good 2 years more or less.
Meeting this OW was completely an accident, kind of like meant to happen. I mean, basically lost my friends in a crowd of 20,000, only standing where I am as found a little space and then some girl starts flirting with me. Then spent 24 hours together and was so comfortable and natural and more affectionate than I've ever had with my W. Yes, I know it's the initial period so it seems real, this is why I chose not to do the do. I don't really want one night stands, either got to be someone I could see myself being in a relationship with or not at all.
Obviously very early days tho, but I haven't stopped smiling or felt this happy in a long time with someone (kids and exception but you get me).
