Good thought. I'm kinda trying to decide from the basis of what will best serve me, but this is a factor.
BTW--from D's description, I thought H got an apartment downtown on the canal, near his hospital and where he used to live when dating OW. However, he said it's in Speedway (west side), which is all he'll tell me. He had said it would either be downtown or on the east side where we live so he'd be near D, but I honestly would have been surprised if he didn't choose to live west because it's on the way to OW's farm. And farther from his previous life.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012