Kerry, the question is, what did I not do. That's where I struggle in all this. Ya know I could see all this happening with an abuser, drunkard, not for chitt father and I am assuming you could too. Me, I'm a good guy. Like all other one time DAMS I had my faults and ignored her needs for years but once I was smacked up side the head I woke up and was a better husband..
I like your idea about the lists..maybe we will revert back to caveman days where women are just taken for our pleasure??
