What I am trying to do is to expect the best, expect positives only, but not expect that specific things along the way will happen to get me there, if that makes sense. I think we HAVE to think and feel positive to get a positive outcome, but it is things like expecting a call at a certain time of day etc. that can really mess with our minds and hearts...
Last night, at about 10 PM his time, H sent me a one word email, subject line : hi email text: hi
Weird, but again feeling good that he is thinking of me. I responded this morning, just, Hi silly billy(a nickname), what's up?
He is reaching out more and more with non-business contact, but I am still holding back from showing any real emotion. I am being friendly, but only reactively. Maybe if this lasts for another week or so, I can test the waters a bit. This is what DR suggests, so I'll need to think of a good way to do this...a safe topic that still shows future orientation perhaps, a reference to something I want to do in the next couple of months maybe, an activity or event and see if he takes the bait and shows his own interest...
I'll post later if anything interesting happens.
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
