Hi Bbj, I was surprised to read your news today. I am sorry you find yourself in a confused situation again. BUT, the way I choose to read what you are "reporting" is that you two still have the same goal : live happy together. From what he says that is what he wants but it seems to feel very hard for him. Am I wrong?
I would be cautious but not discouraged. You can still use all the tools you have picked up through this last year, you can deal with this and not let it get bigger "dimensions".
What you said about a guy at his work having a heart attack makes sense to me. Men usually react to these kind of things (remember moonstruck with Cher where her mom told her that her father was straying because he was afraid of dying?").
Don't lose your focus now. You were doing good. Consider this a bump and stay strong. Keep the happy face on and dont let his mood ruin yours. It can become a "vicious circle". Love K
