Hi Sep,

Yeah I wouldn't worry about that email. To be honest, I think that our WAH's NEED to know some of this info, even if we only bring it up once. When I told H I would move out for 3 months, I told him all the reasons that I fell in love with him, and even said "you'll remember this later when we both feel differently."

It wasn't very DB appropriate, but I think it is in his fog-ridden head somewhere, and that he will refer back to it later, if he hasn't already. I'd say with your H too, how do you know that he doesn't obsess about that email and think about it constantly?

I for one think it's good that your H knows you still want to have kids etc., and that he will feel like the door is open to talk when he's ready.

I'm impressed with how strong you seem.

Keep up the good work!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!