Just so I understand, your H is perfectly aware of the fact that you need that list and it has already been agreed?
Do you and your H ever email? I think what I'd suggest is that, rather than break up the nice and relaxed tone of your texts with something serious like this, sending an email, and maybe waiting until Wednesday to give him the benefit of the doubt and not come across as pressuring. How about something like:
"Hey,
Just wanted to ask if you would please send through your list of required changes (not sure what you call this list or what the least threatening way to refer to it is) in time for my counseling session tomorrow? I really appreciate it, see you tomorrow!
-Daisy"
You would know best exactly what things you need to highlight, but the main point is to keep it as light and non-threatening as possible. I think email is good because it doesn't require an immediate response, the way that SMS sort of does. I also think you should wait as long as possible to send through the request as it seems less pressuring.
If you do decide to send a message, I'd suggest posting it here first.
Hope you're doing well!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
