I am a friend on his facebook. He went to a wedding away this weekend with a bunch of coworkers. I feel these people inadvertently helped to contribute to his feelings. I saw some photos from the wedding. In two photos he was dancing closely and provocatively with one I know he was close with. He must have been really drunk cause that is the only time he dances. I believe it is nothing, but I don't know what to make of it all. There are also many joint friends of mine and coworkers of his at the wedding, it would have looked bad if he was being inappropriate. The thing is, I know he was online writing things on myspace and facebook for a couple hours after the wedding. Sounds pretty innocent.
I spoke with his sister tonight. She feels I need to live life as I am moving on. She does believe with his history he doesn't believe he can fix what was "wrong" with our marriage. He thinks its bad and time to get out. He never saw marriage as successful and thinks ours also can't survive. The thing is, it wasn't that bad. His therapist attributes all this to his abandonment issues. She believes there is nothing I could have done to change it and it is not my fault. She thinks he would want to fix things if he could. She gently urges me to move on, but she still has hope for us. He even tells her, you never know we could get back together even if we divorced.
