Yoyo, he wasn't necessarily threatening me to take the kids completely away. He was saying basically that if *he* isn't welcome to spend the night, that he will begin overnights with the girls at his dads. He hasn't taken them yet (except of course, during the day for outings), and its been really hard for me to get 'there', to where I won't be a mess if he takes them on overnights. Sigh. Another reason I get mad at H still, less time with my girls.
