Hi Tx Mom, sorry you were not successful so far with exposure. Of course this does not mean they are talking to each other with disapproval. I know my H is worried that I exposed him to his sister. He wants to call her but she leaves for vacation for 2 weeks which he doesn't realize so now he will have to wait for her to hear his side. As far as my Ds, believe it or not since their Dad told them he was moving, they both thought he was cheating. And my D15 was right who she thought was OW. So both are not happy with their Father and he is embarressed that they know. But i worry because he is not saying that they broke up either. I am worried that OW is really pushing for him. I pray that once he is a "free man" that they will start having problems. As far as H's birthday - you can chose to ignore or otherwise I would take a picture of your 2 daughters, frame it and give as his present -- what could be more effective - a beautiful picture of his family that the OW will not appreciate.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09