I have been coming to this board for about four years.I feel like a oldtimer.LOL
When my ex left me for ow I fell apart.I didn't think I would survive.In fact I would have taken bet on my failure.I crumbled.I don't think I would have ever pulled myself together if it hadn't been for this board.
I was angry.I lashed out,threw fits.Hell did everything wrong.In the end I didn't save my marriage.But for this board I wouldn't have even saved myself.But along the way I got a lot of good advice and a lot of 2x4s.I needed this board.It was a lifeline.
Howeve everything has changed.I miss the old ways.With the help of others I saved myself.So my question is this.If we for what ever reason couldn't save our marriage..........Then why the hell can't we help each other survive the one thing we all didn't want? Divorce is ugly.It hurts.And when we hurt we act hurt.Pain is ugly and when we hurt sometimes we act ugly.Where is the understanding?[censored] we put up with worse from out ex's.
This should be a safe place for all of us.And right now it just doesn't feel safe.
Later Friends. Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
