I know we do but because we are a lot alike, you know where I'm coming from. I have to try and maintain some sort of civility and friendship. If I don't I feel like the last 20 years of my life was just a waste. I also know that my H doesn't have anyone to turn to and I just can't to that to a friend. Stupid, but I can't, I never have been able to.
I know, we are. But I was taking a lot of advice on here. Good advice. You could tell how much I wanted to go against it, but still maintained my somewhat darkness with her. Changing it up a bit now.
Don't EVER think that the last 20 years was a waste. You have WONDERFUL children and you have learned a hell of a lot from the sh*t you have gone through. I'm finding this out. I felt the same way, but now feel that my girlies are my lasting legacy. They were born out of love and I will never forget that.
I now consider this a learning experience.
I can't control her. I can only try to stack the blocks more in my favor.
Either way, you and I will come out just fine. We're still fighting for what we want because we choose to.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 09/30/0803:43 AM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
