You and your H just spend to much time in touch with each other. Seeing each other, talking on the phone, texting.
Talking so much about "them".
I don't know if I could to that. I think if I did that and posted it, everyone would come by and be swinging lumber at me.
Okay, maybe just Puppy and attorneytom
I know we do but because we are a lot alike, you know where I'm coming from. I have to try and maintain some sort of civility and friendship. If I don't I feel like the last 20 years of my life was just a waste. I also know that my H doesn't have anyone to turn to and I just can't to that to a friend. Stupid, but I can't, I never have been able to.
I post it, because its whats going on. I guess I could lie, but then what would be the point of coming here? You lay it on the line as well. I try not to swing too much lumber at you, because I really get where you are coming from.
Originally Posted By: hopeful4her
II think if I did that and posted it, everyone would come by and be swinging lumber at me. Okay, maybe just Puppy and attorneytom
Puppy only posts periodically (I think he thinks I'm a lost cause) and Attorneytom not at all...so I guess I'm safe for now.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option