BC no one knows the future. There is always hope. You just have to do the right thing for yourself. I always feel like I'm slamming you. I just get so frustrated for you. It makes me angry to see someone treat another person the way she treats you. Its so unnecessary and cruel. Meaness for the sake of meaness sucks!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
She is being this ugly person right now because she is in fight or flight mode. She has royally f"ed up her life and her perfect little fantasy is crashing down around her. The "WONDERFUL" OM knocked her up and bailed out - what a prize. The other person she is texting with is a loser too and is probably not going to stick around with all of her drama.
You are her whipping boy and she uses you to the fullest extent. She views you are the cause of all of her problems. She is not ready to face up to anything yet. She is still in the fog and until she starts to come out of it, she is going to be this person.
If you really want there to be a M to try and work on then you should distance yourself as much as possible now before she does so much damage that you can't/won't be able to forgive her.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Just now I get a text. She's afraid to go to sleep I can't get away from her !
Don't respond, let her deal with it herself. She is playing push-me/pull-you with you. Don't let her mess with your head.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
i hate these games. do they do it on purpose or is it subconscious ?
Both. So its easier to just not worry about what she is or isn't doing on purpose or not, jut live your life. Let her have some consequences. The more you save her, the longer it will take for her to get a reality check.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
