Just enjoy the attention and affection. One of H's issues of unhappiness with me was lack of affection. Affection to him meant sex, at least I thought it did. He'd go to bed early. I'd stay up a little later hoping that he'd be asleep when I came to bed, then be as quiet as possible so as not to wake him. There were some nights I just wanted to sleep. I wanted the closeness of sleeping in his arms or just being close to him, but he needed the sex first.
