I am not sure I am smart enough to figure out what you and your friend are saying....the question remains what unconscious motivation might there be to call me because you hear a song on the radio? What image is she trying to portray and to whom by calling from her car....alone. I thought I said above i would not dwell on it...I guess I am dwelling. It may be something as simple as W realizing that at the very least I have been a good friend for ten years and honestly she does not have a large circle of good friends.