Frank.

I'm at a loss for what to say. you keep stepping in front of the bus and wondering why it hurts.

she is what she is, you are what you are.

she is driving the bus, you keep running in front of it, hoping to change it's course, and the MFer keeps rolling right over you.

dude, I know what it feels like, it [censored] sucks, hurts, paralyzes.

you need to get to the point where you feel that when she hooks up with a gardner, plumber, "healer". you just shrug and say " it is what it is"

and frank, this is the most honest thing to remember in your post married life....

the "wonder bra" is playing the biggest part in the greatest fraud in man kind..