I'm so glad you at least told his family and your D's... what did they say?? I agree to hang tight with the work crowd... can't believe you all work together... gosh that would be hard.
I am finding my in-laws not responding with support to me... his brother didn't have much to say so I then sent an email to them as I wanted them to know my side... I never heard back and I thought I would from my SIL at least. His family is my family so it has made it difficult. They are very private people and don't ask lot of questions so they deal with this kind of info. differently.
My H made the comment that he doesn't care what people think of him but that because of the industry that him and the OW are in that he can't just shout it out.. I asked him what he thought his Boss would say and he just sat there...he knows he would not approve. I asked if he is so happy and this is what he wanted why is he not comfortable telling everyone. My friend made a good point, that there is plenty of time to expose and once I'm through in my heart with him you can tell people.
Question to all - my H is turning 40 next week - I of course had the best surprise party planned but obviously that is off... do I buy him a gift? I guess I need to get one from his girls?? I really don't want to do anything actually.... thoughts??
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
