Don't you think that at least in some ways that you ARE finding it easier to not get slayed by her actions? It seems that way to me at least.
Yes, it's less and less hurtful. I don't make any attempts to interact with her any more. And she rarely calls me except to ask about coming by to see D13 sometimes.
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You are the lighthouse Frank, remember that. Your role now is to be the solid one, the one who can be counted on to remain the committed and honest man that your wife knows you are.
Yes, I know that. For myself, for my kids and in a way for her.
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Her role is to do what she needs to do.
Yes, that much is clear.
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Be the shining light Frank.
If she finds herself lost one day, yours may be the only light she will be able to see.
Or the only one that will shine back on her. Everyone else may be dark by then.
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And no, that was not thrown out there to keep you attached.
