I know it was late last nite when I posted, but that one totally got by me!!
I have been trying to refrain from wondering why the sudden change and this seems to become a futile exercise and I now you folks are jabbing me here, but I have to put it out there now ...
One night couldn't make that much of a difference ... could it?
It has been a week and a half now and she hasn't requested an encore either and a couple of times with these new "acts" of affection, she has commented that doesn't want to mislead me into thinking she's looking for more of that, but that's it. It's all been physical touch, but nothing verbal. I dare not say anything myself, because I know that will cause her to back off.
Actually, I'm doing a 180 here too. Normally, my way of catching her doing it right would be to respond by returning the affection both verbally and physically. Many times she will stop touching me. She once told me she interprets my return touching as me trying to advance it to having sex. How do I break this misconception? So this week, I just sat there and took it. While its been great to receive all this attention, I do become uncomfortable that I can't express my appreciation for the attention and I want her to know I do appreciate it, so I'm not sure this is right 180 to do here?