And like all the rest of we human beings, getting hurt teaches us something.
Our love for a person can overcome enormous obstacles. Our love for our spouse SHOULD require ENORMOUS hurt to make it begin to fade. I applaud you in that you have remained so incredibly devoted to your husband and marriage through ALL of his indiscretions.
But now he has done something that has caused YOU to feel like LESS of a person.
And I think that's a valuable lesson, though not a pleasant one.
You will come to the place you need to be in the RIGHT time. And that time is determined by YOU, not anyone else on this board.
We can tell you over and over again that continuing to allow him intimacy is both dangerous to you and something that can hurt you. Till now, you've been willing to chance it.
I wonder if you'll be so willing to chance it next time.
NEVER talk yourself out of what you truly feel inside.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
