TOH, leaving him alone is NOT letting go...far from it. Right now he is slowly but surely destroying the love you had for him....to keep it from further damage you need to put in a safe place tucked away in a special box.....not to be brought again til all is well. tucking it away you work on you, finding out who you are w/o your H you are a whole person.....it will only be better when the two of you become one again. now you are broken, he is broken two broken halves do not make a fixed whole no matter how hard you want to believe it does...
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest