I just ordered db yesterday, I don't know I would definately like to hang in there but if she is with tis guy I work with, who used to be a friend I just don't know if I can take it, I know it would not work out for them as I know both of them very well all he wants is a// you know . So I will get the book and digest it, I have been acting as if, because when we are at work I am more at ease it's after, the not knowing and I've been trying GLA. I actually feel better than I did a couple of weeks before, it seems as though everywhere I go there are nice looking ladies, not that they are available or that I am looking, it is just nice to be acknowledged, instead of ignored, one thing I have had to put in my head is this, she doesn't determine my self worth and just because she doesn't see the good in me doesn't mean it isn't there. In fact I have been doing many more things to become a better person that she will never know, cuz like alot of other have written, change for yourself and not for your partner, otherwise it won't be genuine, that is so true. we have to do this for ourselves and then our children and anyone else in relationship with us will reap the benefits, and to those who feel we are not worth the stuff on the bottom of there shoe, it is definately their loss,, just a little ranting,,, a little frustrated, but that's ok
