All I can say is you are one patient man, my friend. This chance meeting between your W and OM reminds me of when my W had a couple chance encounters. I have come to the conclusion that the universe tests our resolve...to give us opportunities to show that we have truly changed...or that we're trying to change. I don't mean to be a downer, but although the meeting was "by chance," your W has still not "learned" the lessons that the universe is trying to teach.
errr....
I'm sorry, my friend, maybe I'm being anti-DB, but I get angry about your situation and I just want you to take care of yourself and your needs too.
