I never got the words...I had to read actions...because he would tell me he was never moving back to town and yet he did...then he said he was moving to be closer to our son...but ended up seeing me more...it was a slow process because he really was a scared mess...he had hurt his family deeply and I don't think he knew how to ask for forgiveness, or if even if he was worthy of being forgiven...he had some major depression issues that came up during all of this...
I would say to follow actions more then words...
Lin
Hey Lin I was writing and working as you were posting....as you can see this weekend was one of actions from her...positive ones I think.
Not that there have not been many over the months, but I also have a tendency to pay more attention to the negative actions that I see at times. Little things like her turning her cheek in the morning when I kiss her goodbye, the limp hugs I get at times...her not initiating a hug or a kiss. Those are some of the changes I have noticed over the last few weeks....along with the relaxed attitude.
