Stalling--it just seems that 60 days is such a brief time for such a destructive thing. It just seems so incongruous to be able to end a 14-year marriage and rip apart a family just 6 months after H gets a wild hair and decides he's entitled to more out of life. That's basically it. It may not accomplish anything, and it's not really a strategy. If anything, it's a way of honoring the vows I took and not trivializing them by tossing them out the window in a 60-day process.
I see your point. It makes moral sense. Find out from your lawyer how long you can stall and does it compromise your position vis a vis finances and custody.
But on the other hand, I'd like to have it all behind me so it's not hanging over my head. See my dilemma?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
