I have been married for 13 years and have 3 children--under 10. My wife is the typical WAW and in MLC. You can read my story as well. many of the things you stated are all too familiar.
All i can say is that as long as we take care of the ourselves and the children, there is not much more we can do. i am now in battle mode with my wife as she already is dragging me in into family court to start the process of having me removed from the house. of course, i will fight, delay and do anything i can to protect my children. She is soo lost and gone that I feel the children are in jeopardy.
I still love her in some fashion, but now, i can not ever see her coming back, nor would I want her. there is too much water under the bridge including years of recently discovered infidelity and a current OM. Nevertheless, you and I must fight for what is right and build a new life.
Stay strong and know that if its meant to be, it will happen. I would not think about it as it only causes heartache and pain. There are no sure things in life, except the fact that you only come around once. Enjoy the time you have, but know that its a tough road ahead. As time passes, it will get easier--as so i am told.
