Quoting jethro: It's unfortunate how she handled it, but we both know how she's not one to typically say how she really feels. Right?
Hi there Big-J, looks like we cross posted, but what you said here is the crux of my frustrations now. I just tired of being the one has to make all the "right moves" month after month.
Quoting jethro: So, I was just wondering whether your W is operating with the same the state of mind where she needs some space, but doesn't want to tell you 'cuz she's afraid it might hurt your feelings? Thus, she's begins to feel resentful when you "push" to do more together.
I tried to ward off this by telling her I don't mind at all if she wants to somewhere alone, but I think she twists what she hears around to mean something different. Its twice in two weeks, that we had this same conversation, but I don't feel any of what was said will change it from happening again, so I think she the next time she does her own thing at a "drop of a hat", I'm just gonna have to bite my tongue and say, "Have a good time!"
