That's just it though. I think what I was getting at with your stitch (by comparing it to mine) was that maybe he feels guilty for walking away from his kids, so if this kid is his he needs to be there for it to assuage his guilt.
The way you put it makes sense...how sick is that? I don't get it. I guess she sent him a text asking him what he would do with the baby if she died (I should be so lucky) and he said he didn't know. Then she said she wouldn't want the baby and her D13 separated. He thinks that means she would want them to stay with her parents and I see it as she would want him to raise both of them, or am I just crazy?
I wish she'd just give birth so we could move on to the next round of drama. You know?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option