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Stalling--it just seems that 60 days is such a brief time for such a destructive thing. It just seems so incongruous to be able to end a 14-year marriage and rip apart a family just 6 months after H gets a wild hair and decides he's entitled to more out of life. That's basically it. It may not accomplish anything, and it's not really a strategy. If anything, it's a way of honoring the vows I took and not trivializing them by tossing them out the window in a 60-day process.


I see your point. It makes moral sense. Find out from your lawyer how long you can stall and does it compromise your position vis a vis finances and custody.