Yes, this was a MAJOR issue last year and it came back up when he decided to leave. He wanted me to start having kids right away as soon as we were married, actually even BEFORE!! I wanted to wait some time because I just started a new job that had no disability insurance (which means no pay during maternity leave) and they were sending me to school, so I told him let just wait a few extra months so that I can be half way through the class and purchase my own disability insurance. Well he did not like this and was VERY upset for a long time.
During one of the arguments that we had during the month that he was leaving he yelled at me that I should have just had kids when he wanted them. I was sooo upset because I did/still want kids with him!! We just couldn't at that time. I yelled at him, told him I was sorry that he wasn't patient and that I wanted what was going to be best for us and to be a good mother (with the certificate that I am getting, I can find part-time work with really good pay) to our children, ie not worrying about getting back to work because of the money and being home more of the time. He got so upset he went in the bathroom, started crying and was punching the door.
