Thanks. I am better today. I was better yesterday, actually. I am trying to work this all out in my head--it's the only way I can deal with it. I sure can't change H or what he's chosen to do, and in ways I need to know what I've lost. It seems less now than it did in the beginning.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012