My fiance actually makes this low gutteral noise in his throat, similar to a moan but also something different, more animal, while we are beginning to get intimate. It sounds wacky to describe it, but I know for a fact that something about the vibration of this sound in his throat makes my body get ready for him. Its like some primitive communication...a soft yet powerful animal noise...not sure how else to describe it, but maybe the next time you're feeling particularly randy about your wife, you can just relax and see what kind of sounds your throat would make if you didn't give it any voice? I think the key though is in the primal feelings...they are what drives it.
As well as all supportive things I'm doing, I'm also slipping in little compliments and comments. Trying to steadily ramp up the temperature. The difference now from before is that I feel so much more relaxed about the whole thing. I know its going to happen, but I'm actually enjoying just gently feeding the fire bit by bit.
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"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.
