I got the same thing from my STBXH. I can't cheat on OW (yeah, glad that was so important to you the months before). We (H and OW) have been together long enough that I owe it to her (but our 7 years obviously means $h!t). The only way it makes sense is as a desperate desire to be the better person now in order to reduce their guilt.
Odd thing is, he hasn't been faithful to the Troll at all, not from day 1. I just don't understand his sense of obligation to her and this child? Does he just not see the damage he is doing to his own, especially my daughter by doing this? I also don't understand why he would continue on this way when he says he won't raise a child that isn't his? It just really doesn't make any sense. In the meantime, my children pay for his sense of duty and obligation...WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
