Ali,

I just had time to catch up on your thread.

I've already told you what I think.

To be healthy, any relationship has to have mutual respect at the core. The respect has to go both ways.

Keep us updated.

Thinking of you.

S&A


"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.

Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.