I don't think it's a bad thing to have that list. If this "quarter-life crisis" is common, then you can maybe better understand what he is going through, and that it isn't completely related to you. I know that when I started reading some of the MLC stuff on the boards, I felt really comforted. Granted this didn't change anything I was going through, but it DID mean that my situation wasn't unique, and so I could take heart in the fact that what my H said probably WAS completely meaningless nonsense!
Was/is having children an issue for you and your H if you don't mind me asking?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
