To me, it is possible to be committed to someone even if you are not married (I have always felt this way). I could have lived the same way and done the same things without actually geting married. I think committment goes beyond paper. Therefore, a divorce is also paper (legal).
john210 - I Totally, agree with your statment! I could not have said it better myself. Enjoyed the crazy bit of humor on your thread too!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)