Dancing in a minefield...

[rjd5974]

Here's my advice. Next time you want to post a big list of positives and negatives...just delete the negatives part. You know those things are there but try not to magnify them...listing them like that will magnify them in your mind. However, the positives you do want to magnify..so go ahead and list away.

The next thing you should do is take every one of those positives and ask yourself the question.."Is there anything I can think of that I did that might have allowed that to happen or made it more likely to happen?" Take stock of your positives and try to do some of the things that came about from answering that question to see if you can use action to get any of them to repeat. Pretty soon there will be so few negatives it won't even cross your mind to list them.